Fear of wine (oenophobia)

Oenophobia is a fear of wine. It may involve the drink itself, the smell, or situations where wine is served, such as dinners and celebrations. Some people also connect it to a wider worry about drinking or losing control.

About this phobia

The term comes from the Greek oinos, meaning wine, the same root as oenology, the study of wine. It is rare and found mostly on lists of phobias. It sits close to methyphobia, a fear of alcohol in general.

How it shows up

Some people simply do not like wine, and that is not a phobia. Oenophobia is an anxious reaction to wine itself or to settings where it is served, such as a racing heart at a dinner table or dread before a wedding. For some it centres on the smell or the sight of red wine, while others fear what wine does to the people around them. It can feel awkward in a culture where wine is part of so many meals and celebrations.

Common triggers

• The smell of wine
• Glasses being poured or clinked
• Red wine stains
• Wine tastings and bars
• People becoming tipsy
• Cooking with wine

Where it shows up

• Dinner parties
• Restaurants
• Weddings and toasts
• Supermarket wine aisles
• Holidays in wine regions

Symptoms

In your body

• Nausea
• Racing heart
• Hot or flushed face
• Shaky hands

In your mind

• Worry about losing control
• Feeling uneasy as others drink
• Dread before social meals

What you might do

• Avoiding restaurants and dinner parties
• Checking food for wine
• Leaving as people start drinking
• Asking hosts not to serve it

What may cause it

There is no research on fear of wine on its own. Like a wider fear of alcohol, it may grow from seeing drink cause harm at home, a bad experience while drinking, or a strong link between wine and a painful memory. For some, the smell or the deep red colour seems to matter more than the alcohol itself, which may tie it to disgust or to memories of spills and stains. Avoiding every place wine is served makes it harder to break that link.

How it can affect your life

The fear can make dinners out, weddings and holidays stressful, especially in places where wine is poured with every meal. Some people feel they have to explain themselves again and again, which adds to the strain. Turning down invitations to avoid the subject can slowly shrink a social life.

Related fears

• Fear of alcohol (methyphobia)
• Fear of losing control
• Social anxiety
• Fear of being poisoned (toxiphobia)

Things that can help day to day

• Order a drink you enjoy so you have something to raise during toasts
• Let a friend or host know beforehand, so you do not have to explain on the night
• Sit away from where wine is being poured if that helps you settle
• Remind yourself that you never have to drink, and that saying no thanks is enough

When to get help

If the fear is linked to someone else’s drinking or to past mistreatment, a GP or specialist counsellor can help. A GP is also a good first step if it is affecting your social life.

Explore more unusual fears in the rare phobias A to Z, or browse the common phobias.

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Common questions

Is oenophobia the same as a fear of alcohol?

Not quite. Oenophobia is about wine in particular, while methyphobia covers alcohol in general. If the fear is linked to someone’s drinking in the past, a GP or specialist counsellor can help.

How can you help?

I use hypnotherapy and NLP to change how your mind responds to the thing you fear, so the old alarm stops going off. Sessions are one to one over Zoom, and you get a recording of the hypnosis to listen to afterwards.

How many sessions will I need?

Many clients notice a real difference after one 90 minute session. If the fear goes back a long way, three sessions gives us room to make the change stick.

Further reading: NHS: Social anxiety · NHS: Phobias · Mind: About phobias

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